12-29-2010, 12:31 AM
Hi everybody, this is my first thread by the way.
So, there's a guy I like who goes to my school (I'm 18, he's 16) and he's openly gay and been so for a year or two.
When I realised that I was bi sexual (about 4 or 5 months ago) I found that I was thinking about him quite a lot and didn't really know why. Soon I started to have sexual fantasies about him, and started getting a pretty big crush on him, and thought it would be worthwhile to approach him.
So I said hello to him on Facebook, and was flirting lightly with him. It turned out that we have a bunch in common (more so than with anyone I've ever met) and I guess we kinda clicked, even though I've been too shy to say hi to him in school (he's more on the charasmatic side), but he's been conspicouously absent from school for the past few weeks anyway.
So we've talked maybe 6 or 7 times on Facebook and the last time we talked was a few days before Christmas.
I mentioned that I was buying some weed and he smokes it too. So we decided that we'd buy it together. (I dont know about your disposition on weed, but for this post it is rather immaterial, thank you).
He sugested that we buy it the weekend before we go back to school (Christmas holidays) and smoke it together. And it's great that we're going to spend time together.
But here's the thing.
He suggested that we smoke it at my house, and he knows that every second weekend I have the house to myself (because my parent is working all 3 days, including nights, and this is the weekend in question).
So: it will be just the two of us, in an empty house for a whole weekend, with a bunch of mind-altering drugs.
Do you think that he expects something to happen? What should I do to prepare myself? Should I take it slowly or try it on with him straight away? Should I buy some condoms?
I'm really excited but really nervous. I'm a virgin, and I know that he isn't. (In fact, he has built quite a reputation for himself in the area of permiscious sex, or so I've heard.)
So what should I do?
Thanks for answers
mile:
So, there's a guy I like who goes to my school (I'm 18, he's 16) and he's openly gay and been so for a year or two.
When I realised that I was bi sexual (about 4 or 5 months ago) I found that I was thinking about him quite a lot and didn't really know why. Soon I started to have sexual fantasies about him, and started getting a pretty big crush on him, and thought it would be worthwhile to approach him.
So I said hello to him on Facebook, and was flirting lightly with him. It turned out that we have a bunch in common (more so than with anyone I've ever met) and I guess we kinda clicked, even though I've been too shy to say hi to him in school (he's more on the charasmatic side), but he's been conspicouously absent from school for the past few weeks anyway.
So we've talked maybe 6 or 7 times on Facebook and the last time we talked was a few days before Christmas.
I mentioned that I was buying some weed and he smokes it too. So we decided that we'd buy it together. (I dont know about your disposition on weed, but for this post it is rather immaterial, thank you).
He sugested that we buy it the weekend before we go back to school (Christmas holidays) and smoke it together. And it's great that we're going to spend time together.
But here's the thing.
He suggested that we smoke it at my house, and he knows that every second weekend I have the house to myself (because my parent is working all 3 days, including nights, and this is the weekend in question).
So: it will be just the two of us, in an empty house for a whole weekend, with a bunch of mind-altering drugs.
Do you think that he expects something to happen? What should I do to prepare myself? Should I take it slowly or try it on with him straight away? Should I buy some condoms?
I'm really excited but really nervous. I'm a virgin, and I know that he isn't. (In fact, he has built quite a reputation for himself in the area of permiscious sex, or so I've heard.)
So what should I do?
Thanks for answers
mile:
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