01-02-2011, 04:05 AM
Ok so I have been in a relationship for going on 19 months and at first we were like rabbits. Good times and always had an active sex life whenever we saw each other. Since I would say the last six months sex has gone from a lot to once a week if im lucky. Anyways everything else in the relationship is great but the lack in the sexual department really frustrates me and I have tried to talk to him about it and all, and he says we will work on it and we will improve I promise. Blah blah blah. Well that was weeks ago and i have not seen any change. His excuse usually is he is to tired or if i tease him in the morning telling him wait till you get home tonight and he just constantly says "we will see or maybe" and of course nothing happens and leaves me feeling rejected and disappointed. I really don't know what to do and I'm beginning to wonder if there is someone else he is getting off with and not me but it really is strange because he is affectionate and what not with me and i don't see any signs of cheating but sex just isn't there....sighs please help. Anyone had this happen to them before or anything like this? Any advice will help.