is he?

[FieryJoker!!!]

Hi Every1, just abit of advice please. I recently started working in a new building and went for drinks after work with my new team. At the end of the night it was just me and one other lad. We swapped numbers and we chatted for hours on end and eventually shared a kiss. the next day we texted and went out for drinks and after of month of dating and kissing, we took things to the nxt level.

The next day in work he was oddly different with me, and then at the end of the day told me that he was not gay and it was all a mistake. During our time together he told me all his secrets and often confessed his love.

Now I can understand people being scared and not ready for a relationship so I decided to listen to him and stopped texting back.

Now he has started texting me again trying to get back together, I am really torn on what to do. there are some options on what I think

1) he is too far in closet and scared to admit it.
2) he is after a quick shag

I dont know what to do, bit of advice please.