In need of clarification please

[Anonymous]

Okay so... I was born and raised Catholic, homosexuality is forbidden in this religion(I'm now Agnostic). When I was a boy, my first dosage of curiosity was with another boy who lived right next to me, there was also a girl who lived on the other side of my house. I never did anything with the girl. Anyways me and this boy would play "doctor" every now and then. The parents eventually found out and separated us. We never made contact again after that. 2 moves later into the year 2000, when I was 11 or so, I went out with some girls in the neighborhood. These relationships never lasted longer than a couple of weeks. Into my High School years I never went out with anybody. I was always so shy when it came to talking to women. Most of my friends were men. I was close to one of them, felt really close to him, always hung out with him at lunch, I didn't know what that feeling was. After my HS years, I went out with another girl again. She kissed me once. I don't think I felt anything when she did. I didn't feel like kissing her more. I thought she was going to be my first... but no. We broke up. I got sick of being a virgin and decided to look on the internet for someone who could "break me in". I just wanted to lose it! I was open minded and oddly enough, not shy taking my clothes off for this man I didn't know, he wasn't bad looking either. So I hopped into his bed and let him work me. I didn't get an erection while he did me, but I did like it when he was inside of me, I really did. After an "embarrassing" experience later in the relationship, I decided to move onto someone else. My next BF, I only came once while he f'ed me, and that was mostly from me stroking myself. We had sex about 9-12 times. He even told me that maybe I wasn't gay because I wasn't getting hard. That sparked a massive questioning into my head. And now I can't get that statement out of my head, It's driving me crazy! Am I gay or not? I see some girls and think they're cute. But I don't know if I would feck them. Can someone please help me?