01-10-2011, 12:43 PM
Hi guys,
I'll cut to the chase. I'm a Bi guy and i've been in a straight relationship for four years now. Things are fine with my GF - i think we have a pretty good relationship - the only problem is my sexuality. I've never been with a guy as i was only really coming to terms with my sexuality when i met my gf. So now i'm comfortable with being bisexual but the only problem is i'm in a committed relationship. I told her really early on in the piece, about 6 months, but i dont think she really took it very well. She hasnt mentioned it since and i generally think she feels threatened by it, i.e. that one day i'm going to decide that I'm gay and i dont lover her any more.
The problem is with me. I fantasise about being with a guy all the time. Its a really strong drive for me and i've spent most of my post adolescent life sexually frustrated. I've came close to meeting guys on the net discreetly but my conscience has got the better of me every time. I dont think i can tell her and i'm not sure she'd be comfortable with me seeing guys. So what should I do? Should i just bite the bullet and go behind her back? Should i see an escort? Should I just tell her and hope for the best, and stay jacking off to gay porn at night if the best doesn't happen? If there is anyone else who has been or is in a similar situation i'd love to hear how you dealt with it.
Thanks in advance!mile:
I'll cut to the chase. I'm a Bi guy and i've been in a straight relationship for four years now. Things are fine with my GF - i think we have a pretty good relationship - the only problem is my sexuality. I've never been with a guy as i was only really coming to terms with my sexuality when i met my gf. So now i'm comfortable with being bisexual but the only problem is i'm in a committed relationship. I told her really early on in the piece, about 6 months, but i dont think she really took it very well. She hasnt mentioned it since and i generally think she feels threatened by it, i.e. that one day i'm going to decide that I'm gay and i dont lover her any more.
The problem is with me. I fantasise about being with a guy all the time. Its a really strong drive for me and i've spent most of my post adolescent life sexually frustrated. I've came close to meeting guys on the net discreetly but my conscience has got the better of me every time. I dont think i can tell her and i'm not sure she'd be comfortable with me seeing guys. So what should I do? Should i just bite the bullet and go behind her back? Should i see an escort? Should I just tell her and hope for the best, and stay jacking off to gay porn at night if the best doesn't happen? If there is anyone else who has been or is in a similar situation i'd love to hear how you dealt with it.
Thanks in advance!mile: