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So I finally met somone
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Hello

This is my first post here on GS and I would like some advice from you guys and gals Smile

So I joined this dating website, and finally found someone I really like, we talked on and off for about two months, and after he returned from Christmas holidays we finally met for dinner(My first date) Big Grin

It was a bit awkward at first, he seemed a bit nervous, so was I but I can hide it well lol. During dinner we both got a little more relaxed and talked more, and then after dinner we went to a bar and had a few drinks. We talked about everything from life, politics, to music and art, it was sooo romantic, very chilled night not many people, candle lights, and good background music, I finally got the courage to tell him 'I really like you' (mistake?) and he said it back (Did I pressure him?). We talked some more, and then ended the evening with a firm handshake Wink
I was thrilled when he told me he had a good time, I was just overjoyed, being my first date at 26 I just was over the clouds!!

So two days later I called him, and invited him to go to a pub quiz in the evening, he couldnt make it because he had to do something that night, BUT promised to meet me when he finishes. He called and we met up, and had an even more intimate conversation, more personal, at one point he got really emotional and sort of panicked so I held his hand to comfort him, as soon as we held hands I got a little um ehem action below the waist xD This was the first time I ever held someones hand whom i was interested in.

I again told him I really liked him, and he said it back and held my hand, and he said he wanted to take things slow and I agreed. That night We took a taxi home, before he went out we exchanged a kiss on the cheek 1luvu

So whats the problem you might ask?

Well the day after I sent him a text message "Hello, how are you ? did you sleep well last night? Smile"
He didnt reply...
Now one more day has passed and Im just burning from inside, IM SO ANXIOUS, and scared, was it the booze talking when we met?
I felt when he talked to me that he was a very sensitive person, and wanted to be loved and was afraid to give his heart away so easily...
Is he unsure of me?
Is he just being cautious?
Am I just infatuated by him?(Probably)

I mean I dont know, Im a really nice, honest guy, I would never ever hurt anyone, I just want to hold him and cuddle for hours, and not hearing his voice is for two days is driving me MAD.

Am I over reacting?

I have never felt this way about someone, all these feelings are new to me, My friends say I should just be patient and give him room, but this unbearable, I feel a strong connection with him and understanding.

UGHHH I just wish I he could give me a sign ....

What do you guys think?

Love

Dazed and very confused!
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Messages In This Thread
So I finally met somone - by lokilol - 01-15-2011, 11:17 PM
So I finally met somone - by marshlander - 01-15-2011, 11:51 PM
So I finally met somone - by DarkDaisuke - 01-16-2011, 01:20 AM
So I finally met somone - by lokilol - 01-16-2011, 10:55 PM
So I finally met somone - by toomuch45 - 01-17-2011, 12:12 AM
So I finally met somone - by princealbertofb - 01-18-2011, 02:03 AM
So I finally met somone - by Goldenmane89 - 01-18-2011, 05:15 AM
So I finally met somone - by JoeyJoJo - 01-18-2011, 06:07 AM
So I finally met somone - by lokilol - 01-29-2011, 11:10 PM
So I finally met somone - by lokilol - 01-29-2011, 11:23 PM
So I finally met somone - by The Virgin - 01-30-2011, 03:45 PM

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