09-06-2011, 10:10 PM
SecretLust Wrote:True, it's the percentage that ultimately counts. I just don't want to go down the wrong path believing I'm something I'm not, I suppose experience is the best teacher. Although, at 26 I'm still a virgin, due to social anxiety and, of course, the confusion of what my orientation is.
SecretLust are you still checking in here at GaySpeak? If so, I might have some thoughts for you on your situation. I felt similarly and I was 35 y/o virgin!
I often felt my sexuality was like a pendulum, swinging from gay to straight, and sometimes I still feel that way. I think labels suck, they're too limiting, but I chose the bi- label because it's convenient--not ACCURATE, just *convenient*.
Best wishes.