11-23-2011, 05:49 PM
Hey guys, so one of my good friends called me last night to ask my advice on something, and I didn't quite know what to tell him. So I figured I'd post his question on here and see what you's think.
He's been seeing this guy for, I believe, 2 months or so. The guy (from what I've seen) seems really nice, and they get along well. We've al hung out a few times, and they seem like they're really into each other. IDK if they consider themselves "boyfriends" yet, since it's only been 2 months, but nevertheless...
So he called me last night to say that the guy's being transferred to Miami in a few weeks for work, and asked if he should move with him. I asked him about his job, apartment lease, money etc etc. Apparently he knew about the relocation well before he asked me about it -- he already asked his job to transfer him to Miami, put in a transfer request at school, and put an ad up to sublease his apartment. So I guess you could say he's financially ready.
With all that said though, should he still consider moving with the guy? They've not been together for very long, and haven't lived together yet. Do you's think he's taking this step in their relationship too quickly, or...? If it were ME, I MIGHT consider moving to the same city, but living on my own until the relationship developed a little more... but he and I differ on that point of view
So... should I bid him farewell? Lol
He's been seeing this guy for, I believe, 2 months or so. The guy (from what I've seen) seems really nice, and they get along well. We've al hung out a few times, and they seem like they're really into each other. IDK if they consider themselves "boyfriends" yet, since it's only been 2 months, but nevertheless...
So he called me last night to say that the guy's being transferred to Miami in a few weeks for work, and asked if he should move with him. I asked him about his job, apartment lease, money etc etc. Apparently he knew about the relocation well before he asked me about it -- he already asked his job to transfer him to Miami, put in a transfer request at school, and put an ad up to sublease his apartment. So I guess you could say he's financially ready.
With all that said though, should he still consider moving with the guy? They've not been together for very long, and haven't lived together yet. Do you's think he's taking this step in their relationship too quickly, or...? If it were ME, I MIGHT consider moving to the same city, but living on my own until the relationship developed a little more... but he and I differ on that point of view
So... should I bid him farewell? Lol
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