11-27-2011, 04:54 PM
Hi guys im talking about anal by the way.
I have a guy friend who i liked very much, he was good looking, well endowed, etc.
We didnt do it though.
He insists on wanting anal sex, like maybe all the time, or 90% of the time. Ive never done anals and i dnt think i want to. I have a hard time in the bathroom lately, or just this year, and it sort of runs in my family (this bathroom problem), my dad told me that his hemorrhoids dont disappear (im like who cares nobody will see it anyway, but i didnt tell him that). I didnt look at mine but i think there is
Anyway all the more i am turnedoff the prospect of his well endowed schlong, im pretty sure i will bleed all over like a virgin on her wedding night. Now he has a gf who he claims to me that he anals every night, every morning and every time they have a chance (public schools on a dark night, at the park, in his car, at mt. whitney, etc) and i am really curious as to how this is even safe or normal..
Ever since i was a kid my mom owned a beauty salon, of course we had gay beauticians, etc, i overhear stuff abt sex and etc. one of them told me that gay people dont do anals every day, that its just reserved for a special occasion, like you know anniversaries, birthdays, etc. Not 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, like my guy friend claims. I was also told that there was a gay beautician in our parlor who had to undergo surgery because he could no longer hold his poop in, or it was bleeding.
Well i take this all in no jugement, when you grow up like this without seeing it was bad or good or w/e, its just neutral to you. I just wonder what is it really, can you do it everyday like my hetero guy friend claims (he also says it doesnt overstretch the anal muscles) or you can only do it on special occasions?
also a follow up question, now that i have bathroom problems, and i might have a hemorrhoid risk, should i still reconsider anal sex , maybe with a small schlong or medium sized..my guy friends was really big like his girth was like a can of coke.
thanks.
I have a guy friend who i liked very much, he was good looking, well endowed, etc.
We didnt do it though.
He insists on wanting anal sex, like maybe all the time, or 90% of the time. Ive never done anals and i dnt think i want to. I have a hard time in the bathroom lately, or just this year, and it sort of runs in my family (this bathroom problem), my dad told me that his hemorrhoids dont disappear (im like who cares nobody will see it anyway, but i didnt tell him that). I didnt look at mine but i think there is
Anyway all the more i am turnedoff the prospect of his well endowed schlong, im pretty sure i will bleed all over like a virgin on her wedding night. Now he has a gf who he claims to me that he anals every night, every morning and every time they have a chance (public schools on a dark night, at the park, in his car, at mt. whitney, etc) and i am really curious as to how this is even safe or normal..
Ever since i was a kid my mom owned a beauty salon, of course we had gay beauticians, etc, i overhear stuff abt sex and etc. one of them told me that gay people dont do anals every day, that its just reserved for a special occasion, like you know anniversaries, birthdays, etc. Not 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, like my guy friend claims. I was also told that there was a gay beautician in our parlor who had to undergo surgery because he could no longer hold his poop in, or it was bleeding.
Well i take this all in no jugement, when you grow up like this without seeing it was bad or good or w/e, its just neutral to you. I just wonder what is it really, can you do it everyday like my hetero guy friend claims (he also says it doesnt overstretch the anal muscles) or you can only do it on special occasions?
also a follow up question, now that i have bathroom problems, and i might have a hemorrhoid risk, should i still reconsider anal sex , maybe with a small schlong or medium sized..my guy friends was really big like his girth was like a can of coke.
thanks.
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