What personal sexual requirements, like and dislikes do you have?

[WesHollywood]

I guess maybe I'm just not so sexually charged that I'm gonna resent my partner for "holding me back" and not getting it on earlier Friday night, for example.

Seems a bit greedy to me, but then again, as I have come to learn, most guys have a much higher sex drive than I do.

I have a reasonably strong drive, I can jerk it 2 or 3 times a day. But, to actually have sex that many times? Something completely different and I want it to be more time consuming than just a few minutes to get off for the sake of getting off.

I totally agree with what you said though, about one night when you're by yourself somewhere, or wherever, you'll inevitably see someone you'd wanna get dirty with. Definitely. But, I dunno, I just don't really feel a need to go out and try. I don't get worked up about it. Hell I don't even use them later on in my minds-eye.

This seems like maybe it's just a preferential thing. And I don't mean to sound like I'm insulting what you do, it sounds like it's working for you

I appreciate your honesty. I know I come off as a sex monger in GaySpeak.com, but I have had some unusual experiences. My straight brother told me once "You should write a book and tell it all honestly - problem is I do not think it will sell because no one will believe it!"

My primary love relationship is the foundation of my life. We were practically an arranged marriage. We have a contract that will keep us married as husbands no matter what. The idea of divorce is prohibited, but if things get bad we can have all the best boy friends, and boy friends we want. Older GLBT couples have guided us as mentors. We seem to run with an older crowd that believes in open gay marriage. I do not know a single monogamous couple. Our crowd does not believe there is such a thing as monogamy, and that is not a joke.

Our friends are serious business/political people who are builders, and are preparing my partner and I for GLBT leadership. (Leadership, private joke). I have taken the MMPI three times. I do not have what it takes to run a company, but I have strong skills as an executive assistant. Guys like me do alright because we do not pose a career threat to real leaders. To a real leader, true loyalty is priceless.

These older GLBT, mainly men, are trying to pass the torch. Personal stability is required, not desired. People want to move in our circle because they see success. Financial success is part of the package with hard work, but is a minor part of the GLBT business/political agenda here in the Southern California. And, San Francisco practically holds court compared to our casual approach. The folks I am proud to associate with intend to make GLBT life better before they leave this life. Here is a sample of the kind of television commercials we are using to get our message across. It is a very straight approach. http://www.values.com/inspirational-stor.../72-Locker We are doers, not talkers, and we have no holy book to sell you.