01-10-2012, 02:15 AM
Hi everyone,
I am new to gay speak.
I have a problem with a guy I like and I know he likes me. We both seem to have excuses as to why we can't date. We see each other at the bar occassionally and we talk and maybe kiss a bit. Niether of us are drunk by any means. He keeps talking about how he will never have what I have and has on occassion mentioned he would like to get married. I on the other hand want to get to know him and date. I was married at one time and have children. He keeps saying he will never have that. We have short conversations and it seems he always shows up at the bar when I cant sit and have a GOOD conversation with him. We did however exchanged numbers and did text for about a day or two then it seemed I was sending texts and it soon became a one way conversation. He did answer with a very few words. He kept saying in his text to keep in touch. I wanted to meet him for supper but after sending him a text I got no reply. That was the last time I sent a text. His first text back to me when I asked if he would be interested in meeting sometime and going for lunch or just meeting to talk was ABSOLUTELY. I am now baffled as to what happened between there and now. I havent seen him as I have not been to the bar....and he is NOT a regular there either.
He is totally confusing me!! I cant say this is all his fault what so ever. I always seem to appear that I am not interested by giving him excuses that are actually ligit. I think sometimes he is too young and I had a very bad experience with a young man before him.... it has been 7 years now though!
I have not been in the dating scene in sometime. I am finding it tough!
Any help or suggestions would really help. :confused:
I am new to gay speak.
I have a problem with a guy I like and I know he likes me. We both seem to have excuses as to why we can't date. We see each other at the bar occassionally and we talk and maybe kiss a bit. Niether of us are drunk by any means. He keeps talking about how he will never have what I have and has on occassion mentioned he would like to get married. I on the other hand want to get to know him and date. I was married at one time and have children. He keeps saying he will never have that. We have short conversations and it seems he always shows up at the bar when I cant sit and have a GOOD conversation with him. We did however exchanged numbers and did text for about a day or two then it seemed I was sending texts and it soon became a one way conversation. He did answer with a very few words. He kept saying in his text to keep in touch. I wanted to meet him for supper but after sending him a text I got no reply. That was the last time I sent a text. His first text back to me when I asked if he would be interested in meeting sometime and going for lunch or just meeting to talk was ABSOLUTELY. I am now baffled as to what happened between there and now. I havent seen him as I have not been to the bar....and he is NOT a regular there either.
He is totally confusing me!! I cant say this is all his fault what so ever. I always seem to appear that I am not interested by giving him excuses that are actually ligit. I think sometimes he is too young and I had a very bad experience with a young man before him.... it has been 7 years now though!
I have not been in the dating scene in sometime. I am finding it tough!
Any help or suggestions would really help. :confused:
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