Am I a lost cause, sexually (possible TMI alert)?

[gfxtwin]

Starting about six years ago my genitals gradually became more and more de-sensitized. I can still cum through masturbation, but it isn't anywhere near as good as when there was sensitivity. I was not a compulsive masturbator or a sex addict (The schedule was around two times a week on average) but I think my problem was using one particular hand for so long which caused my dong to pivot at an angle and lose sensitivity on that side. I've heard of this phenomenon occurring before, but only after it was too late.

I would say I've got around 35%-40% sensitivity now. Instead of being depressed all day about it I decided that I would try new options, like butt play. Bought a prostate massager toy that has varying vibration strengths ranging from soft to really hard. As I tried it on max settings, it became clear that it wasn't doing the trick. I tried it on the taint. Meh. Then I inserted it a little bit but found that to be more painful than anything else.

So has this happened to anyone here? Happened to someone you might know? How did they address this problem? What are my options now? I'm not what you would call someone with a huge sexual appetite, but I hoped to have sex one day just to see what all the hype is about.