Advice about comming out?

[Zet]

How will I really get the confidence to actually come out? Any tips? How did you manage to came out? What were your struggle? My family is very different, my mother is very liberal and hippie'ish, while my father always have been ratter disciplined, although I've never heard any gay bashing from him but he think a man gotta be a man, like a woman gotta be a woman. My brother on the other hand is ratter homophobic, and so many of my friend.