02-02-2012, 05:09 PM
I considered making this anonymous as I have been wanting to ask now for two months and I feel kind of silly asking....
Long story short...I am new to condoms. I have never used one until after I posted a thread asking about something else once and whatever you guys said to me convinced me to start using one...I think that I did it because if I ever died I would want my lover to be used to them...
...but there is a huge problem. I actually don't mind wearing them at all and I thought it would hinder everything but it doesn't...but WHY do they break all the time? Is this common? I don't know who to ask. I have tried maybe 3/4 of the boxes now and it is the same with all of them...I even thought maybe the more expensive the better but no dice.
I am not worried about HIV much personally...I am negative as is my partner....for the last 25 years I have been monogamous with the same man and I know he is monogamous as well so it is not a big concern when they break but I am thinking this cant be normal because if it was it would be way to easy to contract HIV.
Any tips or suggestions? Is this common or uncommon?
Long story short...I am new to condoms. I have never used one until after I posted a thread asking about something else once and whatever you guys said to me convinced me to start using one...I think that I did it because if I ever died I would want my lover to be used to them...
...but there is a huge problem. I actually don't mind wearing them at all and I thought it would hinder everything but it doesn't...but WHY do they break all the time? Is this common? I don't know who to ask. I have tried maybe 3/4 of the boxes now and it is the same with all of them...I even thought maybe the more expensive the better but no dice.
I am not worried about HIV much personally...I am negative as is my partner....for the last 25 years I have been monogamous with the same man and I know he is monogamous as well so it is not a big concern when they break but I am thinking this cant be normal because if it was it would be way to easy to contract HIV.
Any tips or suggestions? Is this common or uncommon?
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