Relationships and Sex

[kkr203]

Hey all you forum readers. I'm a week away from my 2-year anniversary with my boyfriend and our relationship has been all over the place. We've worked through various problems in our past, some of them large (he was jobless from April until the following March) and some very typical (different family styles, etc).

One area of big focus right now is sex. I have trouble keeping my urges inside of me and want to fool around every day. But, we only get to do anything when he wants it and he is not a sexual person by default. I do things ranging from simply mentioning an urge to him to not talking to him until the urge is gone. He takes this as nagging and says that nagging will only have negative effects. After two years of this I'm stuck and have felt patient enough about this fucking issue. In addition I'm confused because he's the one who has been in porn and also the one who loves being filmed and stuff, I'm more classic about sex.

Will our sex ever change and work out or am I wasting my time waiting? (BTW, I've also changed myself from being a top-verse to the bottom in efforts to curb our sex life over these two years and am suppressing top urges every day and so far no luck, just frustration.)

Does anybody have any insight about this? :confused: