02-12-2012, 01:39 AM
The problem I have when looking for a boyfriend is I can never find someone I'm attracted to who is attracted to me. I usually look online on certain websites since I don't like going out much, and I'm not into the social scene.
Not to brag, but I do get a lot of message of guys who claim they want to date (probably just sex though). Though honestly there's no bragging to be done. I don't want random sex anyway. But the guys who do seem to want to date me... I'm not attracted to them. =s And I may seem shallow but I can't get into a relationship with someone who I'm not attracted to. Also I get hit on by a lot of older guys who are like in their 40's and 50's, which I am not okay with because I really want someone who is near my age, and these older guys just seem desperate and like they're looking for whatever they can get.
Guys that are near my age seem to have little to no interest in a relationship with me. There could be several reasons for this, but that's another topic. The ones who are just want sex. And the ones who want a relationship I'm not attracted to. I think this is because unattractive guys are insecure and desperate for a relationship ASAP? Maybe not though.
And honestly, I don't think I'm picky.
Also, there has been a guy or two where we had mutual attraction, but our personalities clashed too much but that's a whole separate issue.
Does anyone else have this problem?
Not to brag, but I do get a lot of message of guys who claim they want to date (probably just sex though). Though honestly there's no bragging to be done. I don't want random sex anyway. But the guys who do seem to want to date me... I'm not attracted to them. =s And I may seem shallow but I can't get into a relationship with someone who I'm not attracted to. Also I get hit on by a lot of older guys who are like in their 40's and 50's, which I am not okay with because I really want someone who is near my age, and these older guys just seem desperate and like they're looking for whatever they can get.
Guys that are near my age seem to have little to no interest in a relationship with me. There could be several reasons for this, but that's another topic. The ones who are just want sex. And the ones who want a relationship I'm not attracted to. I think this is because unattractive guys are insecure and desperate for a relationship ASAP? Maybe not though.
And honestly, I don't think I'm picky.
Also, there has been a guy or two where we had mutual attraction, but our personalities clashed too much but that's a whole separate issue.
Does anyone else have this problem?
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