02-12-2012, 12:41 PM
Hi. Please help me. No sarcastic replies, ok?
So, this is the thing. I've been with my man for almost 3 years. I love him, he is a good man. Recently though, he seems to be growing colder. He's a bit snappy and he doesn't cuddle as much as he used to, he says "I love you" but it doesn't seem as sincere as it used to. Most of the time, when I go over to him and hug him, he just pats me on the back and says he's busy doing whatever. I have asked him if he's ok, because he acts weird, and he says he's fine. But he doesn't seem fine. But that's just something about him. He never talks about stuff.
A few weeks ago (yes, this is a very recent development) I met this guy at work. He's gay and single. He's cute, warm, caring..and I think he's flirting with me. (But everybody flirts, right? That doesn't mean anything, does it?) I think I'm falling for him (but of course I haven't told him that). I think about him all the time and when I do my heart starts racing. He's switching jobs next week though, so if I were to do anything, I should do it very soon. I'm just guessing we wouldn't have much to do with each other after that.
What am I to do? Was this a stupid question? Should I stay in my relationship and hope for things to get better? Should I tell this other guy that I like him? Should I tell my boyfriend I might have the hots for someone else? Should I pack my bags and move to a deserted and man-free location? Should I jump off the roof? (Ok maybe I won't do that)
So, this is the thing. I've been with my man for almost 3 years. I love him, he is a good man. Recently though, he seems to be growing colder. He's a bit snappy and he doesn't cuddle as much as he used to, he says "I love you" but it doesn't seem as sincere as it used to. Most of the time, when I go over to him and hug him, he just pats me on the back and says he's busy doing whatever. I have asked him if he's ok, because he acts weird, and he says he's fine. But he doesn't seem fine. But that's just something about him. He never talks about stuff.
A few weeks ago (yes, this is a very recent development) I met this guy at work. He's gay and single. He's cute, warm, caring..and I think he's flirting with me. (But everybody flirts, right? That doesn't mean anything, does it?) I think I'm falling for him (but of course I haven't told him that). I think about him all the time and when I do my heart starts racing. He's switching jobs next week though, so if I were to do anything, I should do it very soon. I'm just guessing we wouldn't have much to do with each other after that.
What am I to do? Was this a stupid question? Should I stay in my relationship and hope for things to get better? Should I tell this other guy that I like him? Should I tell my boyfriend I might have the hots for someone else? Should I pack my bags and move to a deserted and man-free location? Should I jump off the roof? (Ok maybe I won't do that)
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