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Hi guys

After sex do you sleep or do you comment about your performance?
What happened if your boyfriend want to cuddle and talk but you don't want to know ?
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I light some candles, put on some soft music, pop a bottle of expensive champagne... then bash is stupid little head in with the bottle screaming... GO TO SLEEEEEEEEEEP.

Isn't that what everyone does?
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I find a good set of man arms wrapped around me helps me get to sleep faster.
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Gather my belongings and take the long walk of shame home
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I sit on the side of the bed and smoke an imaginary cigarette. I don't participate in discussions on the performance unless the judges give me less than a score of 8.9.

Of course, I could be dreaming all this and be asleep.
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I find a good set of man arms wrapped around me helps me get to sleep faster.
Pretty much this. I've never needed to discuss performance before, if we do talk after it could be about anything but never that.
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I take photos and take them to the next hook up and brag about what just happened.
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I take photos and take them to the next hook up and brag about what just happened.
Haha Daz!

You should do that whilst singing this song- just for shits n giggles!

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Haha Daz!

You should do that whilst singing this song- just for shits n giggles!

Anything for a good shit and an even better giggle
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Haha, fair play! Woulda quoted you but I didn't want to keep replicating everyone's favourite little pop puppet gaga!
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I don't get sleepy right after sex, I get energized. I like to take a shower or bath together, have a snack, listen to music and talk, but never grade his or my performance.
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Is this the same boyfriend who 'wasn't romantic' as per this thread:
https://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?t=42140

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If so I'd call this progress??!

Do you know what you want????
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Is this the same boyfriend who 'wasn't romantic' as per this thread:
https://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?t=42140

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If so I'd call this progress??!

Do you know what you want????
Could you help him mate as he is a bit lost, he's in London in Wales, do you know where that is mate?
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Could you help him mate as he is a bit lost, he's in London in Wales, do you know where that is mate?
At the very least, Ian should find out if the OP gets sleepy after sex, right?
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At the very least, Ian should find out if the OP gets sleepy after sex, right?
Haha, very true Darius! We still don't know what his fatigue levels are like after sex :-)
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