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Unread 10th February 2017   #16
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Sorry for throwing US law at you but it's not unheard of for US Media &/or Law Enforcement to set up entrapment type schemes on the web. Your story made me think about this guy:
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Unread 10th February 2017   #17
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I drove the two hours to Damian last night. Went against all my feelings and told him I was not the guy for him. Not right now, not in this stage in his life. I think I broke his heart (and mine) but it feels like te right decision at this time. But boy... do I like this guy!!!! Promised him we keep contact, which I will.

Already got 6 messages from him last night and this morning. Some on which I don't know how to respond. I feel crappy!
You need to tell him, if it's meant to be, it will still be the case in 2 or 3 years when he's more mature, and has some experience with guys around his own age.

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Probably a wise decision. Keeping touch with him might lead to unwise decisions since you both have it bad. It's not so long since many of us were 17 and we remember how hormones have a way of leading to bad choices. This is not about what's legal/illegal but what is best from someone more vulnerable than yourself. I
It sounds to me like when he kissed you that he was giving you the go ahead. You were strong then.
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Don't buy into them when they say "I'm more mature than other people my age." I have heard that a few times.
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(he glams it up with hair extensions, makeup, and fake nails.)
Wow that is brave living where you do. I give him credit.
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Unread 10th February 2017   #21
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Metro Indiana doesn't seem to be nearly as bigoted as painted by those who don't live here. We've not ventured out into rural Indiana much.
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@drobs I actually have no idea who the guy in the picture you posted is.
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@drobs I actually have no idea who the guy in the picture you posted is.
Sorry for the slow response. The US had a long running News Show called To Catch a Predator.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/To_Catch_a_Predator

Chris Hansen would catch adult men trying to meet underage boys and girls by setting them up with online chats.
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