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Unread 2nd April 2017   #1
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What do you do when your boyfriend is not clean and don't wash himself properly which impact the conditions of sex ?
Can you advise
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Not clean? No sex.
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Take him into the shower with you and wash him up, dry him off, and proceed.
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Man, in this day and age, no excuses not to be clean, the abundance of soaps easily available hot water, bathing facilities in houses.
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Unread 2nd April 2017   #5
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you have a lot of issues with your partner. Either you are uncompromising or your partner is an arsehole. Either way, it would seem you both would be better off without each other.
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I'd walk. For me, bad hygiene is a deal breaker.
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I know what you mean.A couple of years ago I was going with a guy who's ass smelled. I talked to him about it and he said he would correct it but after that very little had changed.He went right back to it. Needless to say I'm not with him anymore. There's something wrong with these damn people.
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Look I'm not being funny mate but can you please hit the shower before you/I come round. Cheers.
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I had an ex who hadn't had a shower or bath for ages, I refused everything until his hygiene had changed and for quite some time to be sure. Actually nothing happened until we split after that.
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Thanks guys but what happened if you do love him and want him to change ?
Could it be a sickness from him /your exes ?
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Hi guys

What do you do when your boyfriend is not clean and don't wash himself properly which impact the conditions of sex ?
Can you advise
Well...

... I find it funny that one would complain that an ass smells like ass... I would love to know what ass is suppose to smell like... Vinegar and rose water?

(Truncated: History of soap, humans evolved for NOT bathing, and side tracks into pheramones, perfumes and the insanity of the modern world)

You're the problem, not him. He is happy to be himself, you desire him to be something he is not.

That might make more sense if I kept the history lesson between... But there is google, so google up history, evolution of humans and stupid waste of resources on a dying world.
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Take a long hot bath together.
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Take a long hot bath together.
Must you solve things so easily??????

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I can understand if something just doesn't smell right once... you know, people make mistakes.
But if it's habitual that one is unwashed, I tend to shy away from that person. I'm not a fan of BO or ass smell.

And FTR, I shower every day - twice a day if possible.
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Must you solve things so easily??????

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''Voulez-vous jouer ce disque?''
'Voulez-vous, will you kiss my dick?'
Will you play my record? One-track mind!


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