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Unread 5 Days Ago   #31
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But sometimes you need to be reassured that you and your partner did enjoy the time right ?
I'd say, tell him how you enjoyed it and then let him come up with his own form of congratulation, if any is to be had and uttered. You could even point out which bit you enjoyed best and maybe why, so next time he'll be guided to what you find the most erotic, fulfilling, sexy, delighful, horny....
But I'd say don't force him to say anything that he may not genuinely be thinking.
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@Josuepek, actually my experience of sex with my partner will generally end up in him falling asleep. For one thing he does not consume anything like tea, or coffee or anything that keeps us awake, so that's one for starters, and for seconds, I guess the sex is so good that it sends him into deep sleep from the amount of great endorphins that are released upon orgasm. I think this is as good a measure of how good the sex was as asking him how he liked it. I know I liked it, that should suffice me not to request a long conversation after the deed.
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That is a sorry idea, to me, but then I guess some people have to go through this to get a little sex from time to time.
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