10-21-2010, 03:52 PM
When I was younger I has sex with women. I could do it, I could even somewhat enjoy it. Just because I could have sex with a woman doesn't mean I am straight. I can receive head from any man or woman and if I close my eyes well a mouth is a mouth.
Being 'gay' is more than just sex.
Does he want to hold or be held by a man? Does he want to kiss a man? Does he have 'fantasies' of finding Mr. Right and settling down for life? Wanting to be with another man in all of these things, sharing your life totally is what makes you gay.
He most likely did have a great time, but lets face it, he most likely does not want to marry you - or any man for that matter.
He 'got a nut' and that made him feel good... but I seriously doubt he is seeking a relationship with a 'guy'. And that makes him straight.
YOU need to stop picking up and having sex with someone who says they are straight.
When asked "Are you gay" and they say "No, I'm straight" that is were you smile nicely and say "That's nice" then you turn your butt around and walk away and do not look back.
Being 'gay' is more than just sex.
Does he want to hold or be held by a man? Does he want to kiss a man? Does he have 'fantasies' of finding Mr. Right and settling down for life? Wanting to be with another man in all of these things, sharing your life totally is what makes you gay.
He most likely did have a great time, but lets face it, he most likely does not want to marry you - or any man for that matter.
He 'got a nut' and that made him feel good... but I seriously doubt he is seeking a relationship with a 'guy'. And that makes him straight.
YOU need to stop picking up and having sex with someone who says they are straight.
When asked "Are you gay" and they say "No, I'm straight" that is were you smile nicely and say "That's nice" then you turn your butt around and walk away and do not look back.
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