Masculine V. Feminine

[fenris]

I´m very masculine ... and its OK for me. Thats the reason why many people I met don´t believe that I´m gay ....
I don´t want to be feminine in any way... but sometimes I think I could be a bit more soft... you know ... less macho, less loud and less aggressive... but it don´t work, everytime if I try to be more soft and less aggressive it ends in a disaster. And my man know: Don´t touch me if my ears glow ... maybe I have to much temper...
I only have to tell one story.... we - my man and I - were in the city ... a young man ..maybe 20 saw a cat and kicked the cat hard with his feet.... my man tried to hold my... but to late ... one jump and I kicked the boy in his as*... said to him : Now you know how the cat feel... but if you want to try it again, just ask ".... It takes 15 minutes to find my man again... :redface:
And for a pagan...this behavior its a no go...