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Masculine V. Feminine
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I'm not that feminine, but I do have a feminine side. I think it's cool that there are masculine gay guys out there because they prove to tough and possibly homophobic straight guys that not all of us are sissies. I've been in the ballpark of 20 fights in my 26 years (some won, some lost) and I fucking hate it when straight guys undermine the fact that I have seen a lot of what they have seen by speaking to me in a soft, pandering voice that is normally used towards girls. Even some of my closest relatives do this. I mean, I'm not hypermasculine by any means, and I actually hate fighting or any kind of violence, but it's just not cool when you're treated like someone you're not.

On the other hand, have you ever met a gay guy who you knew was gay but acted more masculine than they really were? They weren't code-switching either - they really felt that masculine men were more superior. That kind of pisses me off. I think the really masculine straight guys have it easier than the effeminate ones. Many straight people are more prone to befriending masculine gay guys (or, for that matter, lipstick lesbians) because they fit their narrow view of what acceptable gender roles are. Butch lesbians and camp gay guys are often more likely to be hated on because they seem to be much more different from the norm, and people generally hate that. Many are afraid of the unknown or the unfamiliar.

At the end of the day, the variety in the gay community is a great thing lo long as people accept others for who they are. Sounds like a cliche, I know, but the older I get, the more apparent it is to me that people of all backgrounds, behind their fronts, really believe some fucked up shit.
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Masculine V. Feminine - by leeman15251 - 08-23-2011, 02:57 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by toomuch45 - 08-23-2011, 03:00 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by leeman15251 - 08-23-2011, 05:48 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by OrphanPip - 08-23-2011, 07:26 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by fredv3b - 08-23-2011, 07:58 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by azulai - 08-23-2011, 09:09 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by warmpixels - 08-23-2011, 10:11 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by toomuch45 - 08-23-2011, 06:11 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by mynhii - 08-24-2011, 12:12 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by ZombieSlayer - 08-24-2011, 12:18 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by DarkDaisuke - 08-24-2011, 05:41 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by East - 08-24-2011, 05:59 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by fenris - 08-24-2011, 10:11 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Sil - 08-24-2011, 01:03 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Jay - 08-25-2011, 01:12 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by SlipknotRlZZ - 08-25-2011, 03:48 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by gfxtwin - 08-26-2011, 08:08 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by SrChulo - 08-26-2011, 01:48 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by JordanLeeIA - 08-26-2011, 05:05 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by JordanLeeIA - 08-26-2011, 05:12 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by jeffrey - 08-28-2011, 09:44 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Soulblade - 08-29-2011, 03:38 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Almac - 08-29-2011, 04:47 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Jason74 - 08-29-2011, 05:55 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by fredv3b - 08-29-2011, 06:18 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Wolf - 08-29-2011, 07:21 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by matty7 - 08-29-2011, 11:00 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by CellarDweller - 08-29-2011, 11:32 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by leeman15251 - 09-20-2011, 12:45 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by pellaz - 09-20-2011, 03:45 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by bariuke - 09-22-2011, 03:08 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Drew - 09-22-2011, 04:44 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Aester - 09-22-2011, 09:39 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Almac - 09-22-2011, 10:27 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Stallion - 09-22-2011, 03:50 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by chicagostyle - 09-22-2011, 03:53 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Craig - 09-22-2011, 05:24 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Flowerydreams - 09-22-2011, 06:43 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by OrphanPip - 09-22-2011, 07:46 PM
Masculine V. Feminine - by mynhii - 09-23-2011, 06:07 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by fredv3b - 09-23-2011, 07:55 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by dfiant - 09-23-2011, 08:27 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by ardus - 09-23-2011, 11:38 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by red728 - 10-11-2011, 12:13 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Ozzmandius - 10-11-2011, 01:18 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by Rainbowmum - 10-11-2011, 01:40 AM
Masculine V. Feminine - by poorat99 - 10-11-2011, 02:27 AM

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