10-11-2011, 12:13 AM
I had a discussion similar to this one with my ex years ago, I told him that I am not fem and that he is flaming queen lol and maybe he should tone it down, His response was I am the fem one and that he is not as bad as I am. Thinking about it I realized there were things about me my ex considered fem but I did not and there were things about him I considered fem that he did not. It is very hard, and I am not sure if it is possible, to be objective about things like that, whether you are fem or not.
Anyhoot, more to the point and more importantly, I think we should be happy with who we are. It is so sad when we get caught up in stereo types within the gay community when there world marginalizes us as it is, adding more stereo types within is just not cool. Why change who I am?
Anyhoot, more to the point and more importantly, I think we should be happy with who we are. It is so sad when we get caught up in stereo types within the gay community when there world marginalizes us as it is, adding more stereo types within is just not cool. Why change who I am?
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