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how do i accept myself :S
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I know being gay isn’t even an issue nowadays. But for me it is. I still don’t feel normal. I can’t seem to accept myself for it. And until I can, how am I supposed to make my partner happy? How can I ever be happy? I know I love him. I know I want to be with him forever and I will continue to be the happiest when I am in his presence. But I don’t feel comfortable being gay. I know I am gay. I don’t fancy women. I never really have. I only find men attractive – that is the definition of being gay, which is what I obviously am. I am not homophobic. I have no problem saying my boyfriend is gay. But I don’t feel like I can call it myself. Apparently counselling will help me resolve my homophobic view of myself. But how? How can talking to a complete stranger (talking about what though?) help me accept myself? I really do believe that my lying to my mum about where I am going and what I am doing most days is the major cause of my depression and low moods. I know I need to accept myself for who I am. I know there is nothing wrong with being gay. No-one will treat me any differently (I don’t think so anyway?). The majority of my friends haven’t. Apart from the lads who apparently think I am going to pounce on them at any minute and who I now barely have contact with. I know being gay is normal. It isn’t something I should be ashamed to be. But how do I accept myself?
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how do i accept myself :S - by smish - 09-06-2011, 10:12 PM
how do i accept myself :S - by pellaz - 09-06-2011, 10:26 PM
how do i accept myself :S - by marshlander - 09-06-2011, 10:28 PM
how do i accept myself :S - by LateBloomer - 09-06-2011, 10:33 PM
how do i accept myself :S - by smish - 09-06-2011, 10:37 PM
how do i accept myself :S - by smish - 09-06-2011, 10:39 PM
how do i accept myself :S - by fenris - 09-06-2011, 10:40 PM
how do i accept myself :S - by LateBloomer - 09-06-2011, 10:51 PM
how do i accept myself :S - by SlipknotRlZZ - 09-07-2011, 09:31 AM
how do i accept myself :S - by Gpbi - 09-07-2011, 12:49 PM
how do i accept myself :S - by SleepTalker - 09-07-2011, 11:51 PM

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