09-07-2011, 09:31 AM
So um...first off, you aren't gay, gay is just a label. You are yourself, and you like guys. And that's okay...
A good counselor wouldn't really try to HELP you accept yourself directly, he won't give you advice or anything. Through your talking to him and trying to be honest with yourself, he will guide you with questions and stuff, and he will try to make it so that you realize things for yourself. You know?
Don't worry. Don't think about it too hard, in time you WILL be able to accept it.
A good counselor wouldn't really try to HELP you accept yourself directly, he won't give you advice or anything. Through your talking to him and trying to be honest with yourself, he will guide you with questions and stuff, and he will try to make it so that you realize things for yourself. You know?
Don't worry. Don't think about it too hard, in time you WILL be able to accept it.