My suggestion: invite him round for dinner. Allow him to see with his own eyes how happy you are together. A couple of the ex-gay movement's favourite ideas to indoctrinate their 'new recruits' with is that there is no such thing as a happy homosexual and there is no such thing as gay love. Also at dinner in vino veritas (in wine, the truth) gently ask him what he thinks he will get out of this marriage?
Also it might be worthwhile seeing if you could get him to watch a series of videos made by Michael Bussee, one of the founders of the ex-gay movement who subsequently left the movement and, in his own words, reconciled his sexuality and his spirituality. They are all on YouTube, they don't seem to be in any particular order, they are well worth watching. Hopefully here is a link to one.
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Also it might be worthwhile seeing if you could get him to watch a series of videos made by Michael Bussee, one of the founders of the ex-gay movement who subsequently left the movement and, in his own words, reconciled his sexuality and his spirituality. They are all on YouTube, they don't seem to be in any particular order, they are well worth watching. Hopefully here is a link to one.
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Fred
Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
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