Need advice on giving oral

[Dave1987]

Hi,

My name is Dave and this is my first post. I guess I should say right away that I am straight, though I do crossdress. I live in rented accommodation, and a while back my landlord found out about my crossdressing. I was also struggling to meet the rent and was in arrears. He suggested an arrangement - he'd reduce the rent if I would submit to a sexual relationship with him. As  you'd imagine, for a straight guy this was a big problem for me, but I was desperate. So I agreed.

Up to now it's been anal. The first few times were painful, but it's tolerable now. The problem is that recently he's wanted to try oral. I found the idea revolting,  but I gave it a try. It was a disaster - I gagged every time he went deep, and when he started cumming in my mouth I lost it completely and ended up retching most of it up. He wants me to take his full length and to swallow his cum, and I'm panicking as I don't think I can mange either.

So if anyone had any advice on how a total novice can learn to give a proper blow job I'd be very grateful.

[IanSaysHi]

Seriously, move out. If you are finding this revolting then you shouldn’t be forcing yourself to try and accept it. If you were gay or bi and in a relationship with this guy and saying the same I’d still advise you to maybe try something else.

[Scruff Bunch]

Seriously, move out. If you are finding this revolting then you shouldn’t be forcing yourself to try and accept it. If you were gay or bi and in a relationship with this guy and saying the same I’d still advise you to maybe try something else.

I dunno man this sounds like pure fantasy.

But on the off-chance that it is real - OP this is not ok, and you need to get out. I'm pretty sure this is some kind of illegal too... it is, essentially, sex slavery... and any kind of slavery is illegal.

Also, (I would hope) no one here would be willing to contribute to illegal slavery, nor playing out your fantasy for you.

[Dave1987]

Seriously, move out. If you are finding this revolting then you shouldn’t be forcing yourself to try and accept it. If you were gay or bi and in a relationship with this guy and saying the same I’d still advise you to maybe try something else.

Hi,

Thanks for replying. The problem I have is that I'm short of cash and I can't find anything reasonable for what I can afford at the moment. Plus he comes round a couple of times a week, so I'd still need to keep him happy in the short term.

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Seriously, move out. If you are finding this revolting then you shouldn’t be forcing yourself to try and accept it. If you were gay or bi and in a relationship with this guy and saying the same I’d still advise you to maybe try something else.

I dunno man this sounds like pure fantasy.

But on the off-chance that it is real - OP this is not ok, and you need to get out. I'm pretty sure this is some kind of illegal too... it is, essentially, sex slavery... and any kind of slavery is illegal.

Hi,

I know it sounds crazy. I honestly didn't expect anyone to reply, but I'm kind of desperate. I don't need to learn to be great at giving a BJ, I just need it not to be a shambles. I've only tried it the once and I really have no idea what I'm doing.

[Scruff Bunch]

I just need it not to be a shambles. I've only tried it the once and I really have no idea what I'm doing.

No, you need to go to the police. Or at the very least, your family or friends.

No one here is going to be giving you tips on how to sexually serve someone who is literally doing something that is morally wrong and possibly illegal.

The problem I have is that I'm short of cash and I can't find anything reasonable for what I can afford at the moment.

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So THIS is more reasonable than some other accomodation that does NOT require you to be a sex slave????

Forgive me if I am not believing you.

If this is real - police, family, friends.
If this is fantasy - be honest and specify that in a more appropriate place.

https://www.unhcr.org/what-we-do/how-we-...ploitation

[Dave1987]

I just need it not to be a shambles. I've only tried it the once and I really have no idea what I'm doing.

No, you need to go to the police. Or at the very least, your family or friends.

No one here is going to be giving you tips on how to sexually serve someone who is literally doing something that is morally wrong and possibly illegal.

The problem I have is that I'm short of cash and I can't find anything reasonable for what I can afford at the moment.

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So this is more reasonable than some other accomodation that does NOT require you to be a sex slave.

Forgive me if I am not believing you.

If this is real - police, family, friends.
If this is fantasy - be honest and specify that in a more appropriate place.

OK. I didn't mean to cause offence. I just found this site on a google search.  I totally get that my situation is abnormal and might make people uncomfortable. If this is not the place for this kind of request, I understand. 

Thanks for replying anyway.

Dave

[Scruff Bunch]

I just need it not to be a shambles. I've only tried it the once and I really have no idea what I'm doing.

No, you need to go to the police. Or at the very least, your family or friends.

No one here is going to be giving you tips on how to sexually serve someone who is literally doing something that is morally wrong and possibly illegal.

The problem I have is that I'm short of cash and I can't find anything reasonable for what I can afford at the moment.

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So this is more reasonable than some other accomodation that does NOT require you to be a sex slave.

Forgive me if I am not believing you.

If this is real - police, family, friends.
If this is fantasy - be honest and specify that in a more appropriate place.

OK. I didn't mean to cause offence. I just found this site on a google search.  I totally get that my situation is abnormal and might make people uncomfortable. If this is not the place for this kind of request, I understand. 

Thanks for replying anyway.

Dave

You're not engaging with me.

Your situation - if true - is not abnormal. It is, sadly, common, and on the rise. Your vulnerable situation is being exploited for sex.

https://inews.co.uk/news/uk/human-traffi...ery-561742

https://www.gov.uk/government/publicatio...rn-slavery

Address what I am saying - GO. TO. THE. POLICE. OR. FAMILY. OR. FRIENDS.

[Cridders88]

Why's the guy been banned? I guess it was fake?