For me I wasn't ready, I was 16 years old, but at that age you don't think about things, just do them.
Do I regret it, not at all.
Was it good, not even close.
But I knew that it was something I wanted, and after a few times of experimenting and knowing what I like, I grew to enjoy it as I thought I would.
Now it is second nature to me and couldn't imagine having sex without it.
Well I can imagine it, because I sometimes date guys who say they are into it, and never come through, which is disappointing.
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My first time sucked, second time sucked... I don't know if there was a 3rd time (yet)... The reason why it sucked is the person who topped me was too damn impatient and didn't want to take their time. So I concluded that it was them and not necessarily that I can't bottom, I simply wasn't relaxed. In effort to be more versatile, I decided to get a toy (and will be getting more) and lube. So I tried it out and my conclusion so far is that I was right about my first time because the toy is awesome...now I want a bigger one LOL. Practice makes better that is apparent but definitely felt good and hell if the real thing is that good I might even prefer bottom over top. My past sexual experience usually have been a top and sometimes it is ok others kind of meh... All of a sudden things all make sense now...
Still waiting for it to happen... lol, for real i am xD
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First time when I was 25, kinda late to the intimate gay scene as I came out when I was 25, 27 now.
I always used dildos to pleasure myself and such. When I did it, I said I was a virgin and he was ok with it. He stopped in the middle and said I wasn't a virgin and I was lying. I said why? He said because he knew what I was doing..... I had to explain that I've used dildos for years and I learnt some moves from porn..... awkward moment
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i never did it but i did play with myself but i wanted more so i got on a site and things started from there i didnt even know his last name for goddness sake
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Sadly, I'm still a virgin. But in my fantasies I'm definitely a bottom. I want to feel him inside of me.
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I've tried bottoming several times- none of them were anywhere near enjoyable or even tolerable. Well, to be honest only one of the attempts actually counts as proper bottoming. The first few times I literally could not stand the pain AT ALL so I made the guy pull it out almost immediately. That one time it actually worked, the guy was kind enough to prep me beforehand.. Not enjoyable at all though- he was average, 6'' ish, but it still felt like I had a bloody horse inside me.
I've always fantasized about bottoming. In the heat of the moment I'm always like "Yes, i can definitely do that, i definitely want it!" As soon as a dick goes anywhere near my ass though, my asshole nopes it straight away and runs for its life. No idea why that happens. Recently started experimenting with small (..tiny) buttplugs and it seems like things are getting slightly better. Still can't get anything bigger than 4-5" in there without getting the feeling I'll rip in half.. Any suggestions? :biggrin:
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