Thread Rating:
  • 0 Vote(s) - 0 Average
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
A long time coming...
It is hard to tell when I had my first gay experience...

It could have been the crushes I had on my male friends in junior high. (The ones I ignored for a very long time.). We won't count these.

Realistically, I grew up in a very conservative household that could not have accepted homosexuality. I kept it under wraps, and forced myself into relationships with women.

I had physical encounters with men when possible, but this was sex. There wasn't anything lasting, even if I wanted it to be. We won't count this either.

No, my first gay experience came at the ripe age of 39.

Every now and then I would go to a bar to watch some particular sporting events. I preferred to go by myself and enjoy it alone. I've been doing this at the same location for probably 4-5 years. About eight months ago, a new bartender arrived. He was an extremely handsome man. Two months passed, and I had been there probably 3 or 4 times. As I settled the bill, he did something different. He placed his hand briefly on mine with a peculiar smile as he slid the billfold towards me. I opened the billfold to see the "customer copy" of the slip w/ a message.

"Your secret is safe with me. Call me handsome, xxx-xxxx". He had given me is number. He was gay.

I quickly signed it and left. I was nervous, anxious and excited all at once.

It was a week before I finally called him. We talked on the phone 2 or 3 more times before he finally asked me the question.... "Are you ready to go on a date?"

I was. I didn't pause either. "Yes".

We didn't meet at a late hour to have no-strings sex. This was something different. We went to dinner. We took a walk. He took me home. He walked me to the door. He kissed me... gently.

I can honestly say that I still haven't come down from the high from just that kiss, and it was several months ago Smile
Wow, really cool story. Hope it continues to be a positive experience, your bartender friend sounds like a really nice guy...

Keep us posted!
I wish I would get something like that over here lol.

Never had anyone slip me their number....

Just saying. Sounds pretty awesome to me, hope it all goes well for you. Smile
Chickity China, the Chinese chicken
You have a drumstick and your brain stops tickin'

[Image: 848398.png]
Gosh, that sounds like just that amazing dating experience right out of a novel book... I won't blame you for still being high over it.

Possibly Related Threads…
Thread Author Replies Views Last Post
  TIME LIMIT TO FIND THE IDEAL MAN. bootsguy 2 274 11-22-2020, 08:15 PM
Last Post: Chase
  Coming Out Has Been The Biggest Deception In My Life rocco1991 12 310 04-17-2017, 10:12 PM
Last Post: Confuzzled4
  I cheated on my long-term boyfriend :/ prokofiev1996 17 255 06-23-2016, 09:24 AM
Last Post: valkyrie4488
  1st time u bottomed blackula88 37 3,680 02-18-2016, 09:52 PM
Last Post: AlohaShannon
  Confessing my fetishes here, first time ever! Barefoot 77 4,958 08-29-2015, 06:40 AM
Last Post: VirgoMasquerade

Forum Jump:

Users browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)