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Am I Gay For This?
#1
So for the record, until this point I looked at myself as a straight person.
I have not been attracted to a man

One night, I was sleeping over a friends house. We both were bored so we decided to watch porn. After a wile, we were under covers jacking off. I dont know, but I felt more turned on that he was stroking right next to me then by the video. We both climaxed and he climaxed before me and got some on the covers. When I felt it drip on my leg, I was so turned on my climax felt 1000% times better. So, am I gay for feeling more turned on that someone was stroking it next to me then by the video?
(During this we did not touch, the only touch was his climax dripped onto my leg)
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#2
I'm not sure about what the right answer is, but there are other things then being gay that could have caused it.
Unless your partner doesn't satisfy you, doing something sexual with another humanbeing is always better. Even if you didn't touch, your vision is perfectly fine.
If you aren't attracted to men, it could simply be the fact that it is sexual, and no matter the gender of yourself or somebody else, it will have an effect. Smile

But I'm not intirely sure, so maybe you are gay.
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#3
Senpaija Wrote:I'm not sure about what the right answer is, but there are other things then being gay that could have caused it.
Unless your partner doesn't satisfy you, doing something sexual with another humanbeing is always better. Even if you didn't touch, your vision is perfectly fine.
If you aren't attracted to men, it could simply be the fact that it is sexual, and no matter the gender of yourself or somebody else, it will have an effect. Smile

But I'm not intirely sure, so maybe you are gay.

I think that makes a lot of sense. Honestly, I'm sick to death of labels. If you aren't attracted to men, I kind of doubt that you're gay. You say you were turned on - did you have an urge to touch your friend? Have sex with him? Or, as [MENTION=24515]Senpaija[/MENTION] suggested, was it maybe just the thrill of being sexual in the presence of another person?
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#4
Impossible to say with just this one instance.

Attraction to and desire to be with men (or men and women if you're bisexual) is more determinant than getting turned on by something "taboo" in the moment.

I'm sure a lot of gay guys would get hard and even come if they were blindfolded and given a blow job by a woman for instance (sort of a reverse of the straight bait type porn.) That doesn't make them less gay since the body kinda does its own thing sometimes.
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#5
Honestly, I would say you're probably straight...maybe bent. The sooner you understand that sexuality is a spectrum and not a black and white thing the better. Doesn't mean you will end up partnering up with a guy or that you should. Do what feels right to you...Being 17 you're just scratching the surface. I've known many guys, who are straight, who fooled around with a guy when they were young.
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#6
You are a sexual being who had a sexual response to another sexual being who happened to be the same sex. Is it uncommon? Doubtful. Does it mean you are gay or bi? Maybe. Maybe not.
Is this sexual experience (and this was a sexual experience) going to trigger the desire for more of the same? Probably so.

I wish there were a pat answer, but there isn't.
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#7
Are you attracted to women? If the answer is yes, it's possible that you're bisexual, though if you never questioned your sexuality until now you probably prefer girls by a wide margin. You could have chosen "curious" or "straight" and yet you went with "single bi man", you're pretty sure you got turned on by his cum and him stroking his bonk, so I wouldn't rule it out. Did you feel the need of kissing or touching your friend? Do you feel aroused or uncomfortable to the thought of doing so?
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#8
This act of stroking one out together may have some slightly gay connotations but I think you probably aren't. We are very visual creatures and I guess seeing the force of his ejaculation just triggered something in your brain and in what fantasies you may have. I have read somewhere that it is not uncommon for straight men to have fantasies about other men, but as long as they don't actually do anything about it in the physical world, that's all it is, a fantasy. It goes with this idea that our sexuality is fluid. Now if you suddenly felt compelled to roll him over and kiss him all over and do the dirty with him, that would be another kettle of fish, but if it was just the visuals and the warmth of his hot wet sperm on you, I think it was just harking back to your own memories of jerking off.
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