Confused and lacking understanding of myself

[smegs08]

I have recently come out of the closet and i was wondering if some people could give me some tips to look more sexy. Would you consider me a good looking guy or am i wasting my time trying to find an image that fits me?? Would you consider me ugly?? What can I do to make myself look better? Cheers.

Pics of me:

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[spotysocks]

Hello and welcome to the forum !!

I couldnt see your photo links and i had to edit your post because of that.

What is that you dont understand about your self? Is it your looks?

I would concider you a very good looking young guy actually. Nope , far far from ugly. You dont need an image that fits you because you look lovely the way you are now!
If you want to make a change to feel better i understand that. You are young and you find what suits you the best in many levels. mile:

Hmmm what to change? A hair cut could be an obvious and quick change that will make you feel good. Dont cut them too short though because long hair suit you well and the red hair you have is very nice. Make it maybe a little more rock'n'roll and show your face more.

As for clothes black i think will suit you well because of your skin complexion. Try to get dressed in black or a black shirt , long sleeves , straight cut line to give you the triangle shape with no patterns or anything just simple , a nice pair of jeans and trainers is a look that never fails to impress imo.
A tip about clothes: A jacket and shoes remember that are the most important pieces in your wardrobe. You can change your style by just changing jacket and shoes.

Ask anything else you want to know , people here are very nice, helpful and kind so dont be scared

[futureRD]

I agree with Sporty, but i have to add one thing in.... be self confident. There is nothing sexier than an individual that is confident but NOT cocky.

Another thing, just make sure with whatever you wear, you feel comfortable in it. Don't wear something where you have to pull it down, tug it, or keep messing with it. It's just not attractive. The clothes can look wonderful on you, but if you keeping tugging it, it really detracts from your overall appearance.

Looks are always a personal thing, you need to look at yourself and decide what looks best. I like to change my hair style about every 6 months or so. If you aren't sure about your hair, go to a true stylist and tell them to cut your hair the way they think is best. It's just hair, it will grow back. BTW I'm not saying I don't like your hair, just giving ideas.

My boyfriend is very much an idividual that doesn't feel comfortable wearing the clothes I do. I like preppy stuff, he's more classic. You just have to play around with what fits your personality, remember, your style is fluid, what you like one year may not be the same in another year.

Just keep an open mind and try anything and everything on.

[spotysocks]

Well yeah but you know .... in 19 how confident can one be. I wasnt but i am now ...although i am not sure about it ....... hahaha :biggrin:

I can picture you smegs in my head with a new haircut, short at the back long at the front at the one side or all at the back for more volume. Or stay long and the front hair at one side . Imagine how it would look with YOUR beautiful hair! I think great!

Who needs Tony&Guy when i am here:tongue: (it's a good idea but if you cant afford them i am a good choice and cheap lol) Here are some attachment of what i think would look good on you and a website with different to get you inspired
www.hair-news.com/mens-hairstyles-04.html

[fjp999]

You look pretty handsome to me.

Your red hair is a rarity but I might want to get a more modern haircut. I really like your hair in your younger pics.

Whatever you change about your fashion you must be comfortable with.

Welcome to gayspeak.

frank

[spotysocks]

Red hair are irresistibly sexy. In HS i had a crash on a guy with red hair, who is now an athlete and my first bf was the same (not an athlete just had read hair). mile:

[Sui]

Hello and welcome!

You look great as is, and you can leave the self pity to those of us who really are ugly :tongue:

Just because I'm a complete nut for it: I'd say grow your hair out lots... :biggrin: imho, long, blond hair ish teh sexy. maybe a black leather jacket with that t-shirt would be nice if you don't wanna grow out your hair... then again, anything black looks great imo...

In short: probably don't listen to me for fashion advice, buuuuut I'd say either grow out your hair and wear white, or stay with the medium-ish hair and wear some black.

Take care!

[Mark]

Aha I dont think your ugly :biggrin:

[futureRD]

Well confidence is something that anyone can have at any age. I was pretty confident in my intelligence and my artistic skills at 19, it was just my sexuality that I wasn't sure about.

I think once you accept your sexuality, it's easier to be more confident in yourself.

[Shadow]

I have to agree with the boys - I see absolutely nothing wrong with you - actually you're quite cute !

You've got decent musculature in your shoulders, and low bodyfat by the looks of ya, so if I were to make ANY kind of suggestions at all it would be either go to, or KEEP going to, the gym 'coz that'll give you a bit more self-confidence with regard to your looks, and just relax and be yourself apart from that - you look FINE so there's nothing that needs doing.

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xx

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