nytimes article; regaining trust

[pellaz]

for all of those who been dealing with this (cheating spouse), seems a big gay thing here: i found this article in the nytimes today.

the bad:
-possibly written by a herapist for their best interest
-they quote the Kinsey Institute from the early 1900's
-references a straight couple in a marriage

the good:
-In the beginning, emotions are high suggest that they consult individually not as a couple
-spouses who are cheated on are dealing with grief and loss.
-spouses are cheated be prepared for a rough path back; need to be able to validate the pain and show remorse over and over. May never regain the trust they had.

linky:
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/08/11/boomin....html?_r=0