11-01-2011, 01:31 AM
That whole the woman is on the bottom, the man is on the top is taken from your predominately straight world that has cast men and women into certain narrow roles.
Yes, there is SOME gender aspects to Top/Bottom roles, but then women have holes, men have pegs, pegs always go into holes, no hole can go into a peg.
The whole top and bottom thing in (and out) of bed is not a 'gender role' being played out, it is social order, social arraignment.
It is called 'dominate/submissive' because one does dominate, and one is submissive. This is a social/relationship aspect, not a gender aspect.
Yes women in straight relationships are most often to be the submissive, and the straight world perceives this and transplants it onto two men or two women, but its not gender identity, it is the hierarchy of social groupings.
Yes, there is SOME gender aspects to Top/Bottom roles, but then women have holes, men have pegs, pegs always go into holes, no hole can go into a peg.
The whole top and bottom thing in (and out) of bed is not a 'gender role' being played out, it is social order, social arraignment.
It is called 'dominate/submissive' because one does dominate, and one is submissive. This is a social/relationship aspect, not a gender aspect.
Yes women in straight relationships are most often to be the submissive, and the straight world perceives this and transplants it onto two men or two women, but its not gender identity, it is the hierarchy of social groupings.
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