Nudity

[LateBloomer]

I don't think the original intent of this thread was to sexualise nudity and it seems to be straying onto that topic rather rapidly....and we wonder why the general population see gay men as perverts when a simple think like nudity aroused sexual talk when it is a completely natural state of being.

Yeah, back in my, let's say, "more uptight" days, I had a female roommate who told me she took a sauna with her boyfriend and his brother.

And I was like --->:confused:
Are you kidding me?

He let his brother take a sauna with you guys?

She told me: You sexualize nudity.

And I thought about it for a second, and realized she was right. I was about 29 or 30 at the time.

Well since then, I've tried real hard to "shift" my entire perspective on MANY things and one of them is being nude around others. There were YEARS when I would never take off my shirt in front of anyone else.

I'm much more relaxed these days. Age has given me a confidence I would never trade for anything. And yes, I'm now comfortable in saunas, nude beaches, etc...