crush on a new guy

[LateBloomer]

I'm not totally comfortable with this advice, but man, everyday someone posts a similar question.

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Are you old enough to drink?

If so, have a drink with him. Relax, let the inhibitions down. Just talk, get to know him. Same thing even if you don't drink alcohol. But booze will make it easier.

Maybe you won't find out on the first try, but over time you'll get to know him.

Good luck.