08-16-2012, 02:37 AM
BigCub Wrote:Many of you have talked about bad hygiene or body odors, but those are things that can be easily & quickly fixed. Bad attitudes, arrogance, rudeness or misbehavior is not so easily or quickly fixed
Agreed. I can even forgive some socially awkward misbehavior and will give someone the benefit of the doubt so I can learn if it is just awkwardness or nervous energy...
BUT the one thing that really turns me off is if a new acquaintance quickly begins talking junk about someone else behind their backs as if they think I'll just jump on board with the gossip smack. If you'll talk about them that easily with a stranger there is NO TELLING what you'll say about me behind my back too!

