I'm new to the forum and have some questions about Homosexuality....

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I was 10-11 years old when I came to understand that i didn't like girls the way I was supposed to, but I can recall being as young as 8 when I would 'perve' on boys in my class and soccer team.

BUT I liked cars, football, violent movies, heavy metal music and many other un'stereotypical' traits in a gay man.

Never wore a dress, never had the desire...infact I would kill someone before I was forced to wear a dress...so basically homosexual does not even come remotely close to being effeminate.

The only thing that comes close to effeminate is an effeminate man, you cannot bring sexuality into the equation when there is an efffeminate man because the 2 are polar opposites. Most effeminate men are STRAIGHT.

You nephew doesn't have any problems what so ever, it is your brother that has the problem and ultimately IS the problem in this equation...he is so insecure with his sexuality that he feels threatened by his own sons 'percieved' sexuality because of unrelated 'girly' stereotypical and backwards thinking.

Be there for your nephew, but it is your borother that is the problem.