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Should i come out to her?
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Your friends sounds like the material that fag hags are made of... comfortable with gay men, or gay young men, goofy, enjoys their company, isn't necessarily into bedding them, but can enjoy their difference of outlook. Is she pretty?
If she's not in love with you (that's the only problem I can see) she will be supportive, surely. If she is in love with you, well, better dispell the notion that she'll ever be more than a friend.
In truth, once you've come out to someone, you can never quite control where the news goes. But you'll also find that it gets easier and easier just to be yourself and to tell other people. So maybe it would finally encourage you to tell some other close friends. If they don't accept you, then they were never your friends in the first place.
Given that you are still young, and probably in school, others would advise that telling everyone at school may not be the best idea (maybe even less in Greece, but I don't know how intolerant Greeks are) and waiting for release from school and getting into university or starting a job may be the better time to let people know.
I suppose, also, that you are worried about your parents finding out through the grapevine rather than from you. Am I right?
Do your parents know this good female friend of yours?
Take care and good luck. Maybe telling your secret to just one person to start with will be the beginning of your healing. I certainly hope so, Phillip.
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Should i come out to her? - by Sunlight17 - 09-14-2012, 06:24 PM
Should i come out to her? - by ChadCoxRox - 09-14-2012, 07:05 PM
Should i come out to her? - by RockerBlocks - 09-14-2012, 07:50 PM
Should i come out to her? - by Blue - 09-14-2012, 08:34 PM
Should i come out to her? - by princealbertofb - 09-14-2012, 09:18 PM
Should i come out to her? - by dfiant - 09-14-2012, 09:41 PM
Should i come out to her? - by Rainbowmum - 09-15-2012, 03:14 AM
Should i come out to her? - by Sunlight17 - 09-16-2012, 08:15 AM
Should i come out to her? - by Blue - 09-16-2012, 08:32 AM
Should i come out to her? - by dfiant - 09-16-2012, 08:56 AM
Should i come out to her? - by hank - 09-16-2012, 09:44 AM

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