should on-line sites remove the HIV stat

[Bowyn Aerrow]

After spending the past 12 years in a three way relationship (Him, Me and (his) HIV). I have mixed feelings on the whole matter of if its something that should be out there or not.

If I turn to websites to start dating, I would immediately remove HIV+ people off the list of potential mates. Understand, I have lived with HIV in the household for 12 very, very long years, I know what it is like being in a mixed relationship like that. I'm not going down that road again.

Should it be on Dating sites?

Unknown. I would like to know what I might be facing before I answer an advert. Since HIV status has become one of my important boundaries I will not cross, knowing before I respond to an ad would save a lot of time and trouble.