10-25-2012, 12:12 AM
I am of two minds on this.
There have been longish periods where I have had absolutely no interest in sex. Depression or health issues being the underlying cause. I also have a libido that can go the other way and I exhaust my lover :tongue:
But then I have just ended a 14 year relationship where I was told there was no interest due to other reasons and I came to find out that there was sex on the side.
A month is not really that big of a deal. It can happen. Especially if other aspects of the relationship are in the can, such as fighting over nothing and threats of leaving...
It would appear that sex is not the other problem in your relationship. I always suggest couples counseling/therapy for a couple when things are like this. There is most likely a lot of things requiring work and lack of sex is but a symptom of other, underlying issues.
There have been longish periods where I have had absolutely no interest in sex. Depression or health issues being the underlying cause. I also have a libido that can go the other way and I exhaust my lover :tongue:
But then I have just ended a 14 year relationship where I was told there was no interest due to other reasons and I came to find out that there was sex on the side.
A month is not really that big of a deal. It can happen. Especially if other aspects of the relationship are in the can, such as fighting over nothing and threats of leaving...
It would appear that sex is not the other problem in your relationship. I always suggest couples counseling/therapy for a couple when things are like this. There is most likely a lot of things requiring work and lack of sex is but a symptom of other, underlying issues.
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