06-04-2014, 01:15 AM
Thanks. I found out that he was seeing this 24 year old for 6 months before he told me he was having a midlife crisis and wanted to separate. While I thought he was working late or going to the gym he was renting hotels rooms and going to dinner with the young stud. No wonder his body wasn't improving and he was getting heavier. I am 52 years old and this guy is 24 years old. My other half will be 50. For 27 years I thought I was happily married. It seemed so comfortable. With our families and friends. Now the friends are all weird about it. Like they don't know who to be friends with. We were legally married in California about 6 years ago. I wake up thinking I had a bad dream and then I see the bed is empty and realize that it is reality.