What's on Your Mind

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right, but that is the part that confuses me the most!

Think of it this way. If you are straight and you go on to a heterosexual oriented site solely to get aroused...most people are gonna shut you down as it is pretty much understood that there are adult sites for that...

Gay men are a lot more liberal and open in that regard and some will flirt or talk suggestively but others may not want to so you must always try to respect other people and not cross someone's boundaries. That is a learned skill...straight or gay or anything in between.