Hot and cold?

[Lexington]

If I had to guess, it sounds like you're determined, both consciously and unconsciously, to...well, prove people (especially your mother) wrong. That being gay doesn't mean being (in your words) "a total manwhore". And let's face it - one might argue how much sex one might have to have in order to be considered a "manwhore", but nobody is going to attach that label to a guy who NEVER has sex. So I'm guessing there's a desire there to separate yourself from the pack. "See, Mom/world/myself? I'm not like that! Everybody says gays screw like rabbits, but nobody can say that about ME."

...my guess, anyway.

And hey - your life. If you want to live life without ever having sex, that's totally your call. Put it on your tombstone if you'd like - "Here Lies Chris - Didn't Give It Up To (Just) Anybody". But for myself, sex is awesome, and I'm totally stoked to participate in it.

Lex