Hot and cold?

[East]

I'm simply one of those guys who looks for personal connections first before physical attraction.

Does that explain me?

Well... there ya go then. Problem solved. MOST guys do have to face the sex=death thing....on an unconscious... or very conscious... level....glad you are an exception. Good luck to you

Maybe now that marriage is legal everywhere in the US...you could join one of those abstinence until marriage clubs...or start a gay chapter...someone will sooner or latter...and maybe you can find a like minded person within those ranks...