Openly gay but dislike (most) gay males?

[East]

You have a lot of company...ALOT.....I think you may even be in the majority...

Personally...I have gotten more shit from gay men than I ever got from any straight person.....

The reason....oppressed groups of people oppress each other..it is a sociological phenomenon...well studied....

If I want to get picked apart and ridiculed...all I have to do is take a walk down Castro Street and listen to the cackling gay men who think they are witty and/or funny rip people apart....

I worked full time in a gay nightclub for 20 years so I am so very familiar with the behavior of gay men...

Me? I dislike anyone who criticizes anyone else's looks or clothes or hair or age or race or weight....instant turn off...I find them extremely unattractive human beings and keep them all at arm's length. I managed to go 20 years 5-7 days a week in an all gay environment with thousands of gay men and not even once criticize anyone's appearance ...I don't even think it to myself...I think it is tacky and I am embarrassed for the people who do it.....

Having said that...I think you might have a different problem. You say you only dislike men you are attracted to...this sounds like something specific to you and not really about them since you don't have that problem with gay men you aren't attracted to...