03-23-2016, 02:30 AM
Yanno, I've been thinking about your question a bit more and I think the real issue is that you should be knowledgeable about what is safe and the healthiness of your partner as well as their attitude toward sex. This means you will need to have a real conversation about these things. It is important that you avoid harsh situations. Being inexperienced physically is perhaps not as much of a problem as being uninformed about safe sex and the consequences of your behavior. Nobody goes into this knowing how it all happens You can read up by finding such books as The Joy of Gay Sex and any one of a number of sites online, but nothing will make you have the sensations of sex and the feelings afterwards that getting naked and interacting with another guy. You can be nervous the rest of your life or you can learn what is going on out there. Just be safe while you learn
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