What's on Your Mind

[Sylph]

I'm really at a cross roads on this whole conceptualization of the "Gay Beauty" Conundrum;

Because:

On the one hand, yes I like to do a lil eyebrow tweak here and there(which even straight guys here do) and generally look nice;

But I in reality am so far from vain it's probably a shame and it bothers me at times when my looks are the sole focus, both negative and positive, of men.


It's on thing to be told you look nice; but then I'm told every day, especially by these quite frankly questionable ass homophobes here; That a Guy will only ever want me for my Face and my Ass

And all I seem to get is either "You're so attractive 'xyz'" which is flattering, to the straight up "You're a bitch, and you're shallow" x.x


I once even had a friend I made online here, tell me "I dont understand" because I'm not "ugly" like him;

And I'm just like bitch :| I'm clearly no damn model >.>


And so I just wonder... Can people just not wanna feel and look good for themselves and not be told their total worth is in their looks and that they're shallow and are incapable of "getting it" because they're "not ugly like me"?

It really does bother me, that people care soooo much about their image and that especially with Gay bitches, I'm seeing a lot of sad shit and it's 2016 gurls.


Can we just forget the looks for just a lil while and focus on feeling good about ourselves and not at the expense of another gay gurl.

It's really disappointing