I'm so goddamn lonely

[InbetweenDreams]

Well let me be the first to welcome you to GS

I can tell you a lot of gay guys have trouble finding a relationship with a guy, or what you're describing. It is out there but it is hard to find.

All I can say is try to not feel so intimidated, you'll be surprised to find that most everyone, even the guy you might be speaking to is nervous and intimidated.

I will say it is good that your girl friend has been supportive to this level, that is definitely not common. What I will say is that most gay guys are going to expect sex at some point, kind of comes with the turf. On the other hand not every guy is motivated by sex either. I will say sex, while not always the important thing, is still an important area to explore. It might not be your cup of tea. I'm going to tell you there isn't anything wrong with you taking the time to figure things out.

Also one thing to keep in mind is that sexuality is not black and white, that is ok, there's a lot to it. I will say if a guy you think is worth parting with your girlfriend with then ok. Just slow down, don't break it off, she's giving you the space you need to explore that side. Sounds like a very good girlfriend who thinks a lot about you, otherwise she would have dumped you by now if you ask me.

My question though is how do you feel about your girlfriend not considering your coming out?